Das die Amis ein wenig plem plem eigen sind wissen wir ja. Aber dass sie die Baseball Meisterschaft Wold Series nennen ist ein wenig zu viel für mich. Warum denn das? werdet ihr euch fragen. Na weil es nur ein Land gibt das daran teil nimmt. Nämlich die Amis und sonst keiner. Wie kann man es denn World Series nennen. Das geht doch nicht. Kann mir das mal einer erklären? Bitte!!!!

Nach Amerikanischen Gesetz!
Als leiblicher Vater des Kindes gilt der Ehemann der leiblichen Mutter, wenn das Kind innerhalb der Ehe oder innerhalb von 300 Tagen nach Beendigung der Ehe geboren ist. Außer wenn der tatsächliche Vater vor der Geburt eine Vaterschaftsanerkennung machen lässt.

Woher ich das weiß, fragt ihr euch bestimmt! Ich war bis zum 23 Feb 06 verheiratet. Bin im November 05 von meinem damaligen Freund schwanger geworden. Da mein Kind innerhalb dieser 300 Tagen nach der Scheidung geboren wird, gehen die Behörden davon aus, dass mein Exmann der Vater der Kleinen ist. Also muss ich mit dem Kindsvater noch vor der Geburt, in ca 4 Wochen, auf's Standesamt gehen und eine Vaterschaftsanerkennung machen lassen. Nur ob er es macht ist die andere Frage. Er sagt zwar er wird es tun, aber man weiß ja nie. Wenn er es nicht tut, wird automatisch mein Exmann eingetragen. Das heisst wir müssen , wenn die Kleine dann da ist, auf's Jugendamt gehen und eine Vaterschaftsklage erwirken um zu beweisen dass mein Exmann nicht der Vater ist. Das kostet viel Zeit und nochmehr Geld. Und genau aus diesem Grund hoffe ich dass der Kindsvater seinen Hintern hochbekommt und endlich mal das " richtige" macht und zu seiner Tochter steht.

Lately I'm getting sick and tired of your childish behaviour. You tell me you want to be my friend. But the way you act tells me something else. If that's how you treat your friends, then i don't want to know how you treat your enemies! You show absolutely no interest in your daughter. You never call to see how the doctors appointments went or if need any help doing something. That's the least you can do. Last week i asked you if you could help me putting up Jamie's crib. You didn't even text me back if you will or not. That's pretty messed up. You didn't do anything to help me. Besides buying the stroller and 3 outfits. Everything else i had to get. This is not about money. It's about being responsible for your child!! Just to remind you we both planed to have her. She wasn't an accident. And then you turned around and left. And act like you have nothing to do with this. Not thinking about anybodies feelings but your own. You don't care about how i will make it being alone with her and Noah. Or how she will grow up wondering who her father is. You have absolutely no idea how many wonderful moments you are going to miss. Sometimes i think it would be best for her not to have you around at all. She doesn't need to be around someone who abandoned her. Your life won't change one bit. You are still going to do what you want to do, like picking up old habits. Not even wasting anytime thinking about Jamie. I think you are just trying to run away by going to Iraq. But you know you can't run forever. I know i will never see you again. And Jamie will never get to meet you. You will never be a father for Jamie!! In everyone else and in my eyes you have lost the privilege to be a father to her the minute you walked out my door. With a bullshit excuse. I still don't know the real reason. But i don't care anymore. It doesn't matter. I have other things to worry about than a 20 year old, that doesn't know what he wants, besides having a good time! It would be a good time for you, to grow some real balls and shape up. But i know that will never happen. You will understand when you have your own family. One day you will regret leaving her behind. Maybe i will change my mind about you. Maybe i let you know when she is born. And if i feel like it, i even send you some pictures of her. I really hope she will understand why all this happened. And why her daddy choose not to be around. I also hope that i can forgive you one day for leaving me alone with her. Remember how you always got mad at Rob because he wasn't taking care of his Son. Well he is now and he is doing a better Job that i thought he would do. Now you are the deadbeat parent. But it's OK. We will be OK with or without you. All i know is that in 6 weeks i will have a beautiful little girl. And i will love her with all my heart. And she will love me for being there for her from the first second she is born till the day i die.
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